well, I don't like the idea of having to pay just to send messages to someone I am
interested in. I've payed for services like this before and they were a total let down,
and I spent hours trying to get refunds back due to a disappointing dating site. In most
cases I always win. Unfornatly I`m just not into the whole paying thing. If it was free
then sure I'd stay but hey that`s life I guess. Thanks for having me here though.
1. I think that you were before on the site with Russian mail brides, the site that sell
addresses.I agree it can be rather disappointing.
About 5 percent of women that register to the site, delete themselves in 5-10 days,
they get disappointed in Internet dating services or it was done on spur of a moment
or they quickly found someone on the site and want to continue communication only with him.
On the sites that sell emails they won't just answer.
About 5 percent of women are "interested " so much that come to check their mail once in
a month. On the mail order brides it is impossible to differ them from girls who are
really interested and come to check their mail regularly.
The most serious problem on the site that sells the email is scammers. If the first
letter seems scammer like we check the woman's address and other things the same day and
if we see that a woman is really a scammer we put her to our scammer list and men can see
it and do not communicate with her. It is easy and quick to check. But when men buy the
address how they can be up to date if she is a scammer or not.
About 6 percent of women on our site change their personal emails on the site each
month(their old one become invalid) and after that they get notification about mail
in their inbox on the site in the new email, but how can it be done on these sites with
As you can see it is really difficult to have updated database of Russian women on this site.
Email messages of men return, the women do not answer or answer in a month when a man
has forgotten about them.
2. You do not pay for communication. You pay for service, for the system. It is not
seen how much work daily has to be done so that the site functions well.
A lot of work is done to check new Russian and Ukrainian women, to check all complaints. Nobody wants to be on
the site with more number of scammers than normal girls.
The same as getting rid the site of scammers, a lot of work has to be done with men (Nigeria spam) that pay from fraudulent credit card and then
begin to try to scam women. (yes, yes, it happens also)
A lot of work is done to make this site easy to find for Russian women. It is important to have big choice for men and women.
Several software developers work all the time to bring new functionality to the site.
Several servers work in different parts of the world to make the sites quick to download for people from all countries.
The work of designers, psychologists, managers, system administrators, support managers should be paid also.
If you think that it is super profitable business where you just sit and get money from nowhere, then try :) and let's see.